Little Business, Big Dreams

Well hello there! If you’ve been following us for the last couple of weeks, as a woman, you’re armed and ready to take on the world of business, in whatever capacity it may be. Perhaps we’ve enlightened you on the new and up and coming business careers that have welcomed women with open arms, or perhaps we’ve given you a few interviewing skills you might not have already had in your arsenal. We’ll be changing the the subject matter slightly, and heading in a more specific area. Don’t worry, we’ll still be delivering quality tips and treasures, but we’re going to explore the world of being a female entrepreneur.

Last year, I lost my job for what seemed like the umpteenth time. I was working as a buyer for a small retail store that sold high end luxury goods like BVLGARI bags, and Chanel shoes. Previous to that, I was working as a sales rep for a premium denim line called Fidelity. The absurdity of it all, was that they were brands that not only could I not afford, it was difficult for me to accept that in a economic climate, where most households were struggling to make ends meet, someone could walk in and drop three thousand dollars on a handbag, like they were buying milk. But I digress.

I was getting ready for work one morning, and as I reached for the door knob to walk out the door, my Blackberry beeped. It was a message from my boss. “Don’t bother coming into work today, the entire inventory in the store has been seized by the sheriff”. She went on to say, “it was all a misunderstanding and I would be back to work soon.” Not only did I never go back to work, she never paid me for the last six weeks I had worked, most of which were overtime.

I was in the middle of a semester at college, and I was devastated. What the hell was I going to do now? I didn’t have time to job hunt..did I? And then I had my eureka moment; Enough is enough! I decided I was never going to work for anyone else other than myself, ever again!

This blog is dedicated to the trials and tribulations of being a female entrepreneur. Being in business for yourself is the ultimate in self-empowerment, but it’s a minefield, so we’re here to help you navigate it.

Business Advice for The Modern Woman

 

A modern business woman is intelligent, poised, fashionable, alert, educated and dare I say Sexy. Even if you’re still in school, or studying for your masters degree online, you can still be all of these things. Being a business woman means being savvy, staying on top of the trends and using logic before you think and act. Here is a bit of advice for every business woman.

Dress Well – Nothing says confidence like a well-dressed woman. Dress to impress but don’t overdo it. Clothing that is too tight or to low cut says that you are desperate or want to sleep your way to the top. Since you aren’t either of those things, try choosing clothing that comes to at least four inches above your knee. Avoid anything that shows cleavage when you are at work. You should also wear clothing that flatters your form. A smaller woman could wear a pencil skirt and white blouse for a very classic, sexy and chic look. A bigger girl could wear something equally as flattering with a flowing blouse and dress pants. If you’re not dressing business casual, try wearing a blazer over the blouse to give it a very nice and formal touch.

Invest – Investing money now means that you will have more money in the future. If you have a job, try figuring out how much money you can save each month. What are you spending money on that you don’t need? Slim down your budget and save your money for investments. Good investments include bank CD’s, (these aren’t really profitable with small amounts of money), gold bonds, stocks (can be risky), company shares (can also be risky), startup companies (also risky) and even property (such as rentals or etc). However, the final will take more money than you will have as a student. Try saving your money so that you have it should a good investment come along, you never know, you might get lucky and land a good investment.

Act Intelligently – Most of the time if you act like an intelligent woman, you will be seen as an intelligent woman. Unfortunately, acting stupid can get you places, but it won’t get you a better position and it won’t get you respect. Think about what you do and say before you do it. Use correct grammar in both speaking and writing and always make sure that you come off as a professional. That doesn’t mean you have to use jargon or overly complicated words, just avoid appearing to be bubbly or over eager, over excited and easy to confuse. Acting with intelligence will be noticed, it will also single you out as a good leader, a good potential candidate for promotion and someone who can handle responsibility.

Be Polite – Please is the magic word is something you’ve probably heard since childhood. But so is thank you. Be soft spoken, be polite (even when chiding someone) and try to make every criticism an encouragement to improve and to do better. Avoid being harsh, wanting unrealistic demands or being rude. No one’s wants to be the ‘office bitch’ and you can avoid it just by being polite. Choose your words carefully and if you are angry, take a time out. You will earn respect and even loyalty by being polite, both of which can come in handy should you be promoted.

Work Hard – Hard work pays. Working hard means putting your all into what you do. Go the extra mile, volunteer for an internship, volunteer to do extra tasks around the workplace and take any free courses or classes offered. If you do your work well, act as though you love it and aren’t afraid to put in a little extra work to get it done right, people will notice. Chances are; those people will also promote you when a position opens up. If you are still in college, an internship is another great way to show your hard work and attract attention for it. Hard work turns into respect, promotions and more pay.

What To Wear To An Interview For Women

Whether you re applying to be an administrative assistant or to be a partner in a law firm, you need to dress correctly. Did you know that most people will judge you based on the way you are dressed? Because interviews are short, first impressions count and any business woman should dress the part.

First, you want to aim to look like you put some thought into your clothing. You don’t have to dress up to the max but you should at least look color coordinated, clean and well put together. Clothing is associated with success so you might also want to consider the old adage to ‘dress like you already have the job’.

1.       Hair – You might not know this but studies show that your hair plays a big part in how people perceive you. As a business woman you should part your hair to the left or not at all. People see women with left parted hair as strong an intelligent, non-parted hair as wise and reliable and right parted hair as feminine and sweet.  For hairstyles, while you can leave your hair down it is more recommended to do your hair up in a casual or semi-casual bun or hairdo. Don’t make it too wild but try not to be too severe either (unless you are applying for a very serious position.) Usually a chignon or a loose bun works perfectly.

2.       Top – Your top is the most important thing a woman can wear to a business interview.  Most interviews require you to sit down behind a desk which means that your potential boss will see nothing more than your hair, your face and your top for most of the meeting. Try to go with something formal. A button down is a good idea. Feel free to make it as fun or as strict as you want. Black, white, flower print and stripes are all good so long as it isn’t too bold. Try to avoid tops that are extremely low cut but also try to avoid tops that are extremely severe. If you are wearing a traditional button down remember to button up all of the buttons so that you look neat and well dressed.  Also, remember to tuck your shirt in, you are going to a business interview and you should look professional.

3.       Skirt vs. Pants – Should you wear a skirt or a pair of pants to your business interview? The answer isn’t quite as simple as one or the other. First, do you have either a pencil skirt or slacks that are in good condition and professional? If you only have the one, just wear that, otherwise read on. Check your figure, is a skirt or pants more flattering? Skirts will help to make you look more feminine but can also create a classy look while pants can be slightly more relaxed or more formal depending on the cut. In most cases, the skirt is more appropriate and will create a better impression. Try going for a pencil skirt that rests just above the knees and hugs your figure but is not tight (no lycra, spandex or elastic). To high above your knee and the skirt could look too revealing, too low and you will look uptight or prudish. Try revealing your knees and putting a pair of black tights on underneath for the perfect look.

4.       Shoes – Shoes are just as simple as the rest of it. If you are wearing pants try going for oxford flats. These should be in good condition; you don’t want scuff marks peeking out from under your suit pants. If you are wearing a skirt you should try going with a pair of low heels. Try wearing black shoes with heels 3” or shorter. You don’t want to look too sexy; you just want to look professional. The right pair of heels will make you look confident and self-assured but not over the top or attention seeking. This is the perfect impression for an interview. If you don’t own a pair of low heels than you might want to consider investing in a pair as they make a great wear to work shoe should you get the job

5.       Jewelry – Jewelry is a big issue when going in to an interview but really you have two choices. The first is no jewelry at all, let the focus be on you as a person rather than your decorations. Or two, wear something small, modest and delicate. Avoid statement pieces. Switch out the hoop earrings for small studs; wear a small chain (less than 20 inches long) or a watch. Don’t go overboard and aim for subtlety. Rings are fine so long as they aren’t huge. You want to look professional rather than eye catching so try wearing simple silver or gold jewelry with little to no decoration.

How To Be A Modern Business Woman

 

What is a modern business woman? Someone who works? Who has a career? A plan? Actually a modern business woman should have all of these qualities. There are a lot of things that go into a successful business woman and a lot more that go into a happy business woman. Today’s modern business woman strives to combine all of these qualities for true success.

Education

Your education is important. As a rule you have to have a degree in order to succeed in today’s business world. Fortunately, degrees are relatively easy to come by these days. That doesn’t mean you won’t have to work as hard to earn your degree, it just means that you can earn your degree in a variety of sources. Even if you have a full time job that you would rather not part with, you can earn your degree through distance learning! Distance learning or e-learning allows you to study your college courses through the internet. Common courses include business, accounting, law and many more.

Career

Choose your career early on and take steps towards it. It’s important to know exactly where you want to go in order to get there as soon as possible. Did you know that short and part time jobs that you get while in college can actually work towards your career? Do you want to study to be a lawyer? Take a job as an assistant or secretary in a law office, you will learn a lot. Internships are another great way to gain work experience for your career. An internship is a short, unpaid job that can help you to meet future employers and coworkers while giving you the real world experience you need to land your first job.

Attitude             

Your attitude is one of the most important things about being a modern business woman. If you want to be successful you have to act it. You should be polite without allowing yourself to be pushed around. However; you should also not be pushy unless it is the only way to get somewhere. Being a bitch is famous for getting you far in business but in the end, it won’t really make you very happy. Try to balance the two for a mixture of respect and likeability. You should try to be firm and competent with your employees and polite and informative with your boss. Attitude is everything and if you have the wrong one, you won’t make it very far.

Fashion

Fashion is as much a part of being a modern business woman as everything else. You should be put together, professional and even a little bit sexy. Dress to suit your own tastes but remember a few simple rules. Don’t wear anything to tight; you’re a business woman not a ‘sexy secretary stripper’. Most people consider heels over three inches high to be ‘too sexy’ or even slutty. Stick with the lower heels when you’re at work. Another good idea is to wear skirts that aren’t too long and aren’t too short. Below your knee looks a little prudish/old fashioned and to short isn’t very business-like. A good medium is a skirt that is 17-22 inches long. Depending on your height, this will fall somewhere between your lower thigh and just over your knee.

Outlook

Keep your outlook positive and look to the future. Make friends with people who can get you places (if you like them) and cultivate good work relationships. Try making investments when you have the money and remember that if you work harder now, your career will benefit in years to come!


Transitioning from one employer to another can be tricky, especially if they are competitors in the same line of business. And, it does not even matter whether you are a newly hired laborer or you are moving into one of the highest paying jobs. Are there trade secrets? Were you hired to get “an edge” over the competition? How much do you really know about your new work and how is it different from what you were doing? How great is “company loyalty” at your new employer? Here are some ideas to help make the transition easier and avoid some common pitfalls.

This Is How I Did It At ABC
Assuming you never worked for this new employer before, verbalized comparisons between your former employer and your new employer should definitely be avoided. Such discussions are bound to lead to defending certain processes, procedures, policies or practices; and you do not want to be put in that position. If you are asked, particularly by your superior, answer to the best of your ability, knowledge and recollection. However, if you are asked by other employees, be careful how you answer. If these employees begin executing or suggesting a new process, procedure, policy or practice, they may, or may not, reference you or your former employer; but if they are questioned about why they changed, your name may be mentioned, which may not be good for you. Moreover, if you know that another employee may start doing their work differently as a result of your informal discussions, seriously consider advising your superior; but do so in private and with discretion.

This Is How ABC Did It
If the two companies are competitors and have made wise decisions, particularly about products and marketing those products, you should not even have to think about comparisons. Both enterprises know much about each other and their processes, procedures, policies and practices. It is part of knowing your competition.

If you think ABC did a better, more efficient or economical approach, keep it to yourself, at least for the first few days, weeks or maybe even months. The insinuation that ABC is superior in a particular approach may directly or indirectly appear as though you are being critical. This should be avoided. There is an excellent possibility that you presently do not know enough about how and why your new employer conducts their business to even address the issue. However, if your boss asks, again, answer to the best of your ability, knowledge and recollection. If you are asked in the presence of colleagues, make your comments objective and direct answers to the inquiries. Try not to make a judgment about which is superior; that will be for your superior and others to decide.

I Know…
Come across to both your boss and your colleagues as humble and unassuming. Thoroughly understand how and why your new employer does what they do, before you even think about verbalizing comparisons with what you did at ABC. It is often very easy to come across as a “know it all,” even though that was not what you meant or intended. And keep in mind, it is often more important how you say something than actually what is said.

In short, exercise discretion, do not volunteer information about how ABC does it, show some humility, mind your own business and perform your job, duties and responsibilities to best of your ability. In most cases, it will be a wise decision to let weeks or months pass before even bringing up the subject of comparisons with ABC.

Thank you for reading!


There is certainly nothing wrong with trying to better yourself with a new job. But first, carefully consider why it is, or may be, “better.” Is it because of compensation, advancement opportunity, a desire to change careers, the next step in your career planning or a combination of these factors. Regardless of why you may regard the change as “better,” here are some important considerations.

Loyalty
There is something to be said, actually many things, for staying with one employer for an extended period. Consider each one carefully.

Favor. Often employees who have been with the company for many years receive preferred assignments, more opportunity for advancement and the associated compensation increases, additional fringe benefits (health insurance, life insurance, accelerated retirement benefits, vacation time, etc.) and possibly general favor with their superior/boss, often due to the rapport developed with him or her.

Stability. Job security is usually greater when you stay with one company for an extended period. This is particularly important if you have a family with several children. Moving to another geographical location, sometimes even out of the country, will impose both stress and at least temporary hardship on your entire family. These may include possible temporary loss of income, moving and relocation expenses, leaving friends and relatives, and making new friends. However, if you are single, or have a spouse and no children, you may still be flexible enough to make the transition; but this must be a joint decision between you and your spouse.

Resume. Frequent employment changes, especially if it is not a clearly planned career move, may not look good on your resume. Employers often look for the potential for company loyalty when hiring new employees. For example, cab driver to flight instructor to commuter airline to a national or international Part 121 carrier (Delta, American or United Airlines) are all clearly planned career moves. However, moving from one flight instructor position to a second and then to a third within a two or three year period will not give the desired impression to new employers.

Transition
Will moving from your present employment to your new employment be a smooth process? Will you be using skills developed with your present employer in your new employment? Does your new employer consider your present employer as a competitor, a supplier of required materials or supplies, or a non-consequential factor in their business? Each of these could have different consequences for both you and your new employer.

Competitor. Is your new employer trying to attain a competitive advantage by hiring you? If so, and if you regard this as legitimate, the move may be best for you and both companies. You are promoting your career and bettering yourself; the former employer is realizing that the transition to higher quality workers, and retaining quality employees, must be part of their business planning; and the new employer is learning about new sources of employees as their business is growing. Conversely, if hiring you is meant to punish or put another company out of business, you have to decide if the new company really wants you or if they are using you as an ends to a means; and that means may not be completely legitimate, maybe not even in your best long-range interest.

Supplier or Non-Consequential Factor. Is there a motivation for your new employer to hire from one of their suppliers? The motivation may be very innocent or even non-consequential. However, do look at the situation from your new employer’s perspective. Additionally, consider the perspective of your present employer and how they may view you, and your work, if they are knowledgeable about your efforts toward seeking new employment.

Clearly, there are many factors to consider when contemplating an employment change. We will be addressing many more of these in coming weekly articles in the new “Transitioning To New Employment” category in WaynesCareerBlog.

Thank you for reading!


With any new employment, there is often training involved, even if you just graduated from one of the finest traditional colleges or the best online universities. You may be given a title as an apprentice, the training may be referred to as new-hire training or the period of time may even be called a probationary period. The employer wants to make sure you are the right “fit” for the position, which will and usually does confirm the successful completion of the hiring process.

Correct Attitude
Although you may feel as though some, perhaps all, of the material being taught or reviewed (if you have been in this or a similar job before) is either unnecessary or a waste of time, keep those feelings to yourself. They may be true or partly true; however, if you value the opportunity afforded by the position, do not verbalize these feelings. Rather look for opportunities to excel at the training you feel is unnecessary. In many cases, it will be abundantly evident to the trainer, or maybe even your boss, that not much of that training is necessary.

For example, you are being hired as an assistant manager of a restaurant. Part of your training is learning to run a cash register, make change and both greet and thank customers for their patronage. You feel very comfortable with such work, because you worked in a fast-food franchise while in college. The trainer observes that you are very comfortable and polite in your communications with customers. Therefore, he spends little time on that training. Soon you find yourself being introduced to the head cook; and the process of receiving and preparing orders is explained in some detail.

Appropriate Work Ethic
However, even if there are facets of the new job which are familiar, expect many others to be hard, especially at first. Expect a learning curve, maybe even a steep learning curve. One of the major reasons you went to college was to learn how to learn. Now you are being tested. With very few exceptions, college will not teach you everything you need to know to do you first job. You can be very sure that your new employer will be watching you closely as you go through new hire training. How quickly do you learn? How well do you follow instructions? Can you work unsupervised? How do you handle frustration? Do you ask for help when necessary, or do you struggle an inordinately long time before asking for help? Do you give up on tasks easily? (Obviously, there may be a fine line between asking for help and figuring out how to do a task by yourself.) These are some of the types of questions your trainer, and employer, must answer.

Expect to work, and work hard, during your first few weeks or even months. Your ability to solve problems, show initiative, exhibit good judgment and stay with a job until completion will all be evaluated carefully. To the extend possible, put yourself in your trainer’s position or your boss’s position. Answer the question, “Am I doing my very best? Am I adding quality and/or value to the company, its product or its service?”

Finishing the Training or Training Period
Upon completion of the training, be sure you have a sense about how well you did. If you are not told, ask. Most employers will provide new employees with an evaluation instrument. This may record how long you spent in training or in specific portions of the training, individual scores on successful completion of certain tasks, etc. Such an instrument may compare your scores with the average scores of past employees. Based on these scores and the comments of your trainer, or trainers, you will be advised when the new-hire training, apprentice or probationary period has ended.

Do not feel as though you now know everything there is to know about the job. In almost every employment, you won’t; and you will be watched carefully. Maintain a good attitude, continue to exhibit an excellent work ethic and always be willing to learn by listening to others and observing others. Then, regardless of the type of employment, you will excel to the best of your ability.

Good luck on your new job, and thank you for reading!


Starting any new employment is challenging. You must decide on the best way to get to work, and which mode of transportation is best. The work environment is new. You are adjusting to new people and new surroundings. And you are dealing with the many uncertainties of achieving stable employment and a steady income. This week we will address something to make any new employment easier and more enjoyable – assuring that you have sufficient resources to do the work.

“Ask and You Shall Receive”
The Lord said this in John 16:24. There is a parallel; but in the new work environment you may only be in this unique position for a few days or weeks. Your boss, and even his superiors, understand there is an adjustment period. Often, its actually very easy for them to think back and put themselves in your position. But you have to ask. So think carefully, what have you been asked to do? Reasonably and practically, what resources do you need to do the work, with high quality and efficiency? Ask now, after a few days or weeks you may not have the favor you do now; in fact later, your boss may even ask, “Why didn’t you tell me you needed… sooner, when you first started?”

Physical Resources
For example, maybe you need a better chair at your desk; the present one just is not comfortable. You are used to a split computer keyboard (one with “QWERT” on one side and “YUIOP” on the other). You also could use a couple portable USB flash drives for bringing important electronic documents to meetings. There is only one chair in your office for clients and other visitors; you really should have two or three. And a whiteboard would be very helpful as you explain a new theory or process to clients.

Obviously, the list of possible examples could be long. But ask early, not after weeks of struggling without such resources. Additionally, show some discretion. Do not make a physical list, except for your reference. Unless your boss asks to give him or her a list, usually the items should be communicated verbally, just a few at a time. Do not be demanding; rather, say something like, “You know, I really could use a whiteboard and some markers in my office.” If the items have been given some thought, usually you will not even have to explain why you need them.

Human Resources
Do you need an administrative assistant or secretary? Is one even mentioned in your “work description”? If the answer to one or both of these is “yes,” inquire politely but immediately, “When will I be assigned my administrative assistant?” Give your boss some time. He or she, and the company, may be in a period of adjustment also. This may be especially true if you are filling a new position. Look over and study the organizational chart. Who do you report to? Who do they report to? Who is under your area of responsibility? You need to know these answers immediately and definitively.

Also, if you report to more than one person, you are being put in a very difficult position. At the appropriate time and place, try to get this changed. Everyone should have only one superior; otherwise, you will always be deciding which one’s work should be given priority – a very untenable and awkward situation.

The Work Description / Position Description
Do you have a work description? If not, and you are working for an established company, especially a large established company, ask; there probably is one somewhere. Or, do not hesitate to ask if you can create one. Your boss, and his or her superior, will most likely welcome your help and appreciate your initiative in asking. However, be sure you already have some expertise in this area and have significant confidence in the work you will be performing. Unless you have had an extensive period of internship or “on-the-job-training,” this may not be the case, especially if this is your first employment out of college.

Thank you for reading!


Fitting in to a new environment is always challenging. But one of the most important keys is humility. You may come with significant background in the discipline of your new job, or you feel very confident about your knowledge of the subject, especially if you did very well academically and have much confidence in your knowledge of the discipline. However, don’t talk and act as if you know more than others. Most likely, you do know quite a bit. But, head knowledge of the basics, or even a high level of understanding of the theories or processes, does not mean you know how to apply them in the practical world.

Have A Flexible Personality With Individuals
This is often very difficult for those with strong personalities, who may have the attitude, “Well, this is the way I am and if someone doesn’t like it, that’s too bad.” Depending on the colleague, this attitude will almost always get you off on the “wrong foot” with them. Until you get to know them better and understand how the company, division or department works, show some humility. Don’t come up with your “better ideas” just yet. You may indeed have a better way of doing something, but show some discretion in how you suggest it and when you suggest it.

As I began my teaching career, here is a simple example from my first flight instructing work. My new employer, Embry-Riddle Aeronautical University (ERAU), had a different prelanding checklist than I used in my training to be come a flight instructor, which I had just finished. But I did not object to it or tell them that I had a better idea or tell them, “You ought to do it this way. …” Much later I learned that ERAU had created many procedures for introducing and teaching procedures and maneuvers. While these were not the only way to accomplish them safely and efficiently, the were very good. And more importantly, they were an excellent way to teach new flight students, who later could be (and were) given the opportunity to vary from the “Riddle way.” Students later were given this liberty; as long as it was safe and complied with the Federal Aviation Administration’s guidelines, as spelled out in the appropriate Practical Test Standards, it was acceptable.

Appropriate Attitude With Your Boss
Obviously, you want to have a good relationship with your boss. Therefore, the above also applies here. However, with him or her you do not want to even insinuate the wrong attitude. Your boss will quickly extrapolate that insinuation into the future and expect possible problems. “Yes sir…” and “No sir…” should be your reply to every request, especially during the first few days or weeks of your new employment. If you really do not agree with what he is saying or asking you to do, then take it up with a colleague; but even then, do not act as though you are superior. Again, show some discretion with your suggestions. Strive to understand why your new employer does things differently; there probably are a very good, practical and common sense reasons.

Appropriate Attitude At Meetings
Do more listening than talking, unless you happen to be put in the unenviable position of leader or chair of the meeting; then, be very careful to listen to others and give them ample opportunity to speak. They will understand that you are new and need to be given time to get acclimated to the new work environment. However, if you are not the leader, mostly listen, introduce yourself when asked to do so and leave any and all suggestions for doing things differently to one-on-one conversations with individual colleagues or, after some thought, with your boss. At least for the first few days or weeks (maybe longer), do not bring them up at meetings where you will most likely be seen as a “know it all” or someone with a very inflexible attitude.

Thank you for reading! Your comments and questions are most welcome.


There has been much research in the past five to ten years on sleep, sleep cycles and fatigue. And much of the research, many articles and several books (in the fields of aviation, trucking and many others) are very consistent with each other. A rest period of 15 to 20 minutes about every 4 hours is extremely beneficial for reducing fatigue. I found this particularly effective to eliminate the lack of energy in late morning and again mid to late afternoon. The following description is how I used these findings over the past eight to ten years, with excellent results.

What To Do
Upon rising in the morning I note the time and add four hours. If I get up at 5 AM, then I remember that about 9 AM I will be taking my first 20 minutes break. This 20 minutes is not sleep, and not necessarily even laying down. Rather, I attempt to find a quiet place (my office, with the door closed, usually worked very well for me) where I could simply close my eyes and rest.

The first things that always came to mind were the many work items I should be doing. For me as a college professor, these might include calling a student, correcting papers, reading emails, calling my boss, etc.; the list was often endless! However, during these first few moments of the 20 minute break, I would put these items in priority. Therefore, at the end of about the first five minutes, I would have prioritized my work for at least the next several hours. When my nap was finished, I immediately set to work on priority number one, then two, then three, etc. And I often worked very efficiently! Next, my mind would remember things that I had forgotten to do, but should have done by that time, or things I had just simply forgotten. Sometimes these were extremely important; and without that rest period to bring them to mind, I might have gotten into big trouble! For example, I might remember about submitting a report to my boss, calling my wife, contacting an important client, getting ready for a student coming in for academic advising and many others. It was almost supernatural! At about the ten to twelve minute point in my nap, I usually would have remembered these and set them in the priority list, often making them priority number one; however, sometimes I would actually interrupt the nap to take care of something extremely important, which simply had to be done ASAP!

Next I would simply let my mind go wherever it wanted to go, with some restrictions. As a Christian it was easy to identify immoral or inappropriate areas, but just as easy to identify “things above” (Colossians 3:2). So I would think about the Lord, my family, my many blessings, pleasant environments and memories, etc. And by the time 20 minutes, or at least 15, had gone by, I was ready and eager to work!

Some Cautions
Addicting. The practice of taking this 20 minute break every day can be somewhat addicting. If you practice this for weeks or months at a time and then miss a 20 minute break, prepare to struggle with fatigue at a level that is bearable, but still more difficult than normal.

Bedtime. Do not take a 20 minute nap within four hours of bedtime. It will negatively affect your ability to go to sleep as you normally would. For me, I often would lay awake for 30 minutes to an hour before sleeping.

Driving or Operating Machinery. Some jobs will simply not allow a nap every four hours. During my work in the air as a flight instructor, this became particularly challenging. I just took the 20 minute period when an opportunity came, obviously not in the airplane. Later when I had more office time, it became much easier.

Give It A Try!
I have even recommended this to students, especially as part of my classes teaching teamwork and the human factors of becoming a flight instructor. As appropriate for your work and work schedule, try it! Remember, do not fall asleep, just rest in a quiet place with your eyes closed. When and as appropriate, you might even mention this practice to your boss. Then, if he ever walks into your office and catches you with your eyes closed, you will have an excuse, and an excellent one at that!

Thank you for reading! All comments and questions are most welcome.


Especially on Monday mornings, but usually every weekday, the first hour or more of office work is devoted almost exclusively to reading and answering emails. Many are simply glib messages, which obviously had little thought to grammar, spelling or accurate content and which were often a “spare of the moment,” almost carelessly composed thought or question. Does that describe your emails or your email responses? Well, here are some thoughts about changing your email communication habits.

The Easy Part – Spelling and Grammar
You may not be an accomplished writer, and may not ever aspire to be one; however, you should be able to put sentences together with a subject, verb and object and then do a quick spell check. This takes very little time; and it is an easy way to make your emails stand out. For many people, if they believe you took very little time or effort to accomplish these elementary steps, they may take very little time to read it; or they may even delete it without responding or sometimes without even reading it!

The Hard Part – Saying What You Mean, Meaning What You Say and Proofing It
Why is this the hard part? Because, it takes time! And we very often are thinking, “I have so much to do, I can’t spend all day reading and answering these emails!” Well, take the time. So many errors in business, industry, education and many other fields emanate directly from poor communications. I would rather skim through my emails rapidly, and possibly not even answer or acknowledge some, rather than create a glib, poorly worded response and risk a miscommunication. If someone took the time to communicate to you with a thought or question, and you believe it deserves a response, make it clear (with correct spelling and grammar) and accurate (by proofreading it).

The Benefits
This will not happen overnight. But over time your colleagues, customers, clients, suppliers and many others will more often take the time to read your emails and respond to them. Of course, they may not always respond “in kind”; but that is their problem, not yours. However, very seldom if ever, will a colleague, customer, client or anyone else come back to you and say, “I thought you said…” or “What did mean by that?” Additionally and most importantly, you will often get more rapid responses and more direct answers; and that means more efficient communications – something that is often sought after as one of the many duties of a business administrator, who may be your boss! How much more work would get done if everyone in your organization realized such efficient communication?

So give this a try! Take a little extra time to communicate by saying what you mean, meaning what you say and creating accurate content through correct spelling and grammar. More respect from your email recipients may come slowly, but it will come – especially by the time you have learned to communicate this way by habit.

Your comments and questions are most welcome. Thank you for reading!